“Judging a person does not define who they are, it defines who you are.”

So many random things have happened lately.  Not all of them blog worthy, but a few will randomly appear.  It’s been a crazy few days which is fine.  A lot of good and bad, and that’s the way life always is.  Even when things tend to pile up on me and get me down in the dumps, I always try and look at the positivity in life.

I have an amazing husband that I would do anything for and me for him.  We are so lucky in that respect and every day we get together is precious.  I have a few amazing friends I would do anything for.  I have the best three cookies anywhere that cause me endless happiness and entertainment.  I also was so fortunate in the past year to visit Hawaii, Disneyland, and we bought our first home.  I am lucky.  However, that doesn’t mean life can’t frustrate me.

So when life frustrates me like others I have a few options.

I can:

• eat
• run
• vent about it
• try and think about the happy things
• put things in perspective

So the last few days have been a tiny bit frustrating although I do remain optimistic that it will turn around soon.  Instead, I chose to run today.  Followed by a healthy dinner of protein, fruits, and veggies mainly.  Yummy!  So just remember, adults don’t always act like adults (although I wish they did).  You can’t change a cheetah’s spots.  And judging a person does not define who they are, it defines who you are.

It’s something I feel the entire world, myself, included needs to get better at.

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